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Getaway

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Mr. Pom and I are headed to here this weekend. It will only be the second time we've stayed at the house. What with one thing or another, we haven't had a free weekend to go.

I hope to even have the chance to take the sales slip off the sofa.

Isn't that little table cute? Maybe I should bring it home here. (I see this as a continuing dilemma: do I buy this for our regular house or the Cape cottage? Or buy two. As if!) You are looking at all the furniture in the entire house except the beds.

We are bringing the pups for their first visit. I expect that little rug in the middle of the bare living room to go flying many times.

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I also expect that Mr. Pom will have to be dynamited out of that chair when it is time to leave on Sunday.

More over the weekend, which is supposed to be sunny and in the sixties.

Happy Halloween from Cape Cod!


GIVEAWAY!

Bolt

Mr. Pom evinced a desire over the summer to read The Bolter, Frances Osborne's book about her great-grandmother, Lady Idina Sackville, cousin of Vita Sackville-West. Lady Idina was the inspiration for Nancy Mitford's character, The Bolter, who is the mother who abandons the main character in her early childhood. 

I suggested to Mr. Pom that he read Nancy Mitford's novel instead, but alas, somehow I managed to marry a man who does not read fiction. He reads tons and tons, but just not fiction. He adores history and has read his way through all of American history, with a very long period of deep study of the Civil War via Shelby Foote.

So, being the good wife I am and wanting to read this book myself, I quickly ordered it from Amazon, but somehow managed to order two copies.  I guess I have a heavy finger on the keypad.

So my mistake is to your benefit. You can be entered into a raffle to win a copy of The Bolter by leaving me a comment in which you tell me about a wonderful book you can recommend that you have recently read.



What Have I (Not) Done

Last week, I came home from work full of vim and vigor and got A Lot of Stuff Done.

This week (I know it's only Monday), not so much. Intended to do some writing but instead spent the evening watching Coccon with Mr. Pom and The Princess, who had never seen it. And found out that The Teen never saw Ghost Busters! Can you believe the movie education I have to give these kids??

So here is my list of things I haven't done that I should have done and that some of you out there even are waiting for me to do.

(Read carefully for surprises!)

THINGS I HAVE NOT DONE

  • Brought my sewing machine to the repair place since I broke a needle in it and jammed it up
  • Unpacked my art suitcase from Art Is
  • Which means I haven't posted the poetry I promised the Art Is-ers that I would email to them
  • Nor have I fashioned the Journal Class Poem from all their cool fragments
  • found my black bra
  • made a hair appointment and the roots are showing
  • made a dentist appointment and one little tooth is sort of vaguely achy...
  • found a new place to get a flu shot since the damn dr. cancelled my appointment because they ran out
  • put away two huge baskets of laundry from the weekend
  • put away the rest of my summer clothes and transferred the winter stuff into the closet
  • figured out where the hell I am putting the rest of the summer clothes
  • returned a bag I ordered from Talbots that looked like a cool rusty orange on the website and turned out to be Construction Worker Orange in person
  • returned two books to Amazon that I somehow double-ordered by mistake
  • posted a giveaway of said two books since I never returned them
  • put away the dry cleaning from the weekend
  • returned the comforters to Target that I bought for the CC house but now think they look too little girlish (kelly green polka dots- what?? I'm going for a summer mood!)
  • stopped worrying about The Teen getting all of application in for early decision to The Famous Art College in one week
  • figured out why the SATs are holding her scores because they said we didn't pay for it but of course we paid for it or she couldn't have taken it!
  • Uploaded ANY of the photos from Art Is
  • Written posts about Art Is
  • Written posts about our last family trip to Baltimore
  • Written a post about The Teen's portfolio review and interview
  • Called my mother this week! (Sorry, MOM!!)
  • quit my job so I could attend to all this

BUT - FOR REAL -  I began work in earnest on a major writing project and now that I have finally figured out how to do it, I realize I can actually get it done in maybe half a year?

Going to bed to try to get more into Lorrie Moore's The Gate At the Stairs, but I gotta tell ya, it's kind of depressing and flat. Too much bleak midwestern midwinter forlorness. Gives me the creeps.

So, in the footsteps of some Great Bloggers (Blackbird, Badger, and Babelbabe), I am asking you to ask me questions, so I don't have to think too hard about what to post and I can cross that off my to-do list. You can ask about anything and I promise I will post a reply - it may not be the reply you want, but I will reply.


O BLA DI O BLA DAH

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I have to say that I really am a very shallow person. It takes very little to make me change my mood. The last few weeks we've had cold, rainy weather. Everyone is griping about losing autumn the same way we lost most of the summer. Although I am happy to put on a warm sweater and boots, I am not happy to realize that I will be wearing them for the next nine months.

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So here comes yesterday and today: temperatures in the 70's! Sun shining through golden oaks! I get in my car to drive home and roll down the windows to the car. The smell of the air is soft and sweet although the light is too thin for summer. Suddenly my mind is drenched in California and I remember what it was like to live in a state where summer stretches to nine months and how my delight in  warmw eather is directly proportional to how cold it is back East.

California, I miss you like a lover that I lust for but know that I could never marry. Who would think that perfect weather can get . . . so boring. I never realized that half my exultation in hot, sunny climes was dependent on the dark, cozy gloom of a day crashing with thunder and soaking with rain.

 

(It is not unlike needing salty after sweet. How many of you ate fudgesicles in the lunchroom by scraping the sweet icy chocolate with a salty Wise potato chip? If not, try it immediately. Also: pretzels dipped in chocolate.)

 

But back to my rides to and from work. I get to drive on a narrow, two-lane parkway that was designed for Sunday drives in the country. It twists and turns up hills and down, through banks of trees and the rolling greens of golf courses. Occasionally, near the reservoir, I see horses along a bridle path. There is a huge reservoir that acts like a giant mirror to the sky. Going the back way, I pass the small lake that we lived near when we were kids. Turtles bask on the rocks that we climbed on and the maples blaze like matches lit along the shore.

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In the car, I am listening to The Beatle's White Album (thanks, Mar!) and Sargent Pepper. I am singing along, tapping the steering wheel. I am 13 years old again. Oops! I shouldn't be driving! No,  I am a British chick in my sports car. I have on go-go boots. My long blonde hair blows into my Mary Quant eyeshadow and my mini rides up my thighs.I am driving to Liverpool to join The Magical Mystery Tour.

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"When I'm 64" is just a silly song about old people. Paul will never be 64!  I  am impossibly too young, even too young to fully understand Lucy In the Sky With Diamonds, but I know it is groovy and about drugs, ergo drugs are groovy. My eyes well up over "When My Guitar Gently Weeps"; oh, Eric you were never as cute as Paul or as cool as George but how I came to love you in my thirties.   I sing at the top of my lungs along with "Back in the USSR". I completely rock out to Sargent Pepper, playing both air guitar and keyboard whilst driving. (Kids, don't try this at home.)

 

I am very grateful that my car does not have 1) a camera, and 2) any kids. Oh, well, everybody's got something to hide except me and my monkey.

 

But what am I saying?

 

I am a kid, just a young teen listening to her sisters' albums. When they are not home to ban me from their room or forbid me to touch their stereos. God forbid I put a scratch in that album!  Wait, I'm not a little sister but a gorgeous hippie chick, all frizzed out hair and African dashiki topped with love beads.  I'm a groupie, a bird, a chick with a fringed suede jacket and maharishi tunic. My peace sign hits the steering wheel as I take the curves. Paul is waiting for me. Paul is dead! Paul is dead! Play the album backwards. Paul is dead!

 

I pull into my street and maneuever my car between my older daughter's and my younger's. I switch off the engine. My knees creak as I climb out, dragging my briefcase behind me. I pull in the garbage cans that have been rolling around the sidewalk all day. I pick up the mail, let the dogs out, start dinner, change my clothes.  I'm so tired, I'm feeling so upset. Although I'm so tired I'll have another cigarette

 

As I walk past the dresser mirror, I wonder where about all the lonely people; where do they all belong?   I wonder whether  a  a little white lipstick would go with my black pinstripe suit when I try that case tomorrow.....I walk down the stairs humming, "Dear Prudence".  As I contemplate the mess left for me in the kitchen sink, I think, 'Happiness is a Warm Gun". What this family  needs is a "Revolution."

 

I'd give you everything I've got for a little peace of mind.

 

 

Oh, well, O Bla Di O Bla Da, life goes on, on, la la how the life goes on.


Seasonings

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In the front bed, the plants are beginning to show the slow decay of autumn. The hostas are yellowing and their leaves are becoming dessicated. The rudbeckia is almost done and the seed heads will remain as a exclamation points in the snow all winter. The hydrangea are slowly fading away but not before the bush by the front porch turns an absolutely dreamy deep shade of rose and brown,  perfect specimens to dry and keep in my mother's silver chafing dish until spring. 

My favorite thing of all, though, in the late autumn garden are the white asters.  I planted a pink aster and a white one to edge the front of the bed. The pink asters bloom in early September and have already gone to seed. The white ones, however, bloom in late September and right now as beautiful as any Japanese painting. Their delicate heads bob in the wind and they are so improbably white and delicate for a fall flower. They would seem more appropriate flowering in the heady days of May, but their show in the fall seems so contrary that they   never fail to bring a smile to my face as I walk to and from my car each morning and night. 

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This is another sure sign that the seasons have changed. The pizza pans are brought out and oiled, the mozzarella diced, and the sweet smell of marinara and oregano perfume the kitchen on Sunday nights when Mr. Pom makes pizza. 

Each household in my family has at least one of these pans. They are all inherited from my grandmother's house. They began life as the tops of fish tins, the fish tins that my grandfather had on his truck as he peddled fish around the city.  The bottom of the tins were quite deep, probably about 6 inches high at least. The bottoms were used for making the lighter-than-air sponge cakes that were layered with apricot jam or macerated strawberries and topped with freshly whipped cream. My favorite part of the cake was the pitcher of strawberry juice that my aunt ladled off the berries and into a pitcher for pouring on the cake.

I don't have the bottoms to my tins. I may have had one once and lost it in a move. I know my youngest sister has one and rightly so since she is the only sister that has taken over the tradition of the sponge cakes. They are as good as my aunt's and never fail to also bring a smile to my face when I see it on her table.  She layers her cakes with chocolate and vanilla pudding but there is always whipped cream.

Our tins are used for all sorts of things, but mainly as cookie or pizza sheets. They are perfect for several rounds of biscuits to bake with sides touching. I can fit two tins side by side on each oven shelf when I make dozens of Christmas cookies.  My cousin bakes taralla cookies on them, an old family recipe brought on the old family tins.  Mr. Pom makes a mean assortment of pizzas on various pizza trays and I swear that none brown up or taste as good as whatever one he makes in the fish tins. 

And didn't I bring one with me to Art Is, to use as my surface as I learned to solder?  The round shape was perfect for me to reach around and the little splashes of solder didn't harm the tin at all.

All cooks understand that the real worth of a pan is in the seasoning.  Once a pan is fully seasoned, it can cook just about anything to perfection. Sometimes those less in the know in my family forget about a seasoned pan and put the pans in the sink to soak. The rust stains the next day are reproachful and I have to swab them with cooking oil and put them in the  oven on low for an hour to reverse the damages.

Yes, it's the season for seasoning, not just pans, but our stories. Get out your stories, take them down off the shelf and air them out for another telling. Polish them up and serve your family the stories that they hunger for, those that can't be sweetened with sugar or spiced up with salt, but are just perfectly delicious on a rainy autumn night.


A Lot On My Head.

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I have a lot on my head.

That's an expression The Empress uses. Not "a lot on my mind", but "a lot on my head".

It's kinda funny, don't you think?

Nothing really important or earth-shattering going on. Just very busy at work and since I was away three weekends in a row, lots of household and family stuff to catch up on.

We were supposed to go to the Cape last weekend and chickened out when the nor-easters starting coming through. But I got so much done! Mailed out artwork, emailed essays, returned library books, deposited checks, brought back ugly sheets, cooked a twenty-pound turkey (!) and had the whole family over for a pre-Thanksgiving feast, made a pot roast, and cleaned my bedroom. So, pretty good for two days, no?

And that's why I've been so quiet here. Not that I don't love you, but I do find that I can only get so much done at once and something has to give. So lately, it's been the blog.

But I'll get back into the swing of it, don't you worry! I haven't eaten uploaded all the photos of Art Is, which was a blast.

By the way, we are starting a NY Metro area Art Is Artist Group, so if you are in this area and would like to meet with a bunch of crazy women artists for nothing more than fun and lots of eating of desserts and maybe even a little art work and probably plenty of show and tell, let me know your email addy.

Back in a day or so with a give away and some more book reviews.


Sunday Evening Warm & Cozy

Under the covers with the laptop a la lap and Cucciolo's head resting on my feet. Bella Sera is lurking around here somewhere and soon as the Baby Mama gets wind that her son is on the bed, she will demand her due and end up squished up against me under my left arm.

Makes typing a bit difficult. Just spent 5 minutes trying to figure out how to get the dock back on the Mac after Cucciolo laid his head on the keyboard and the dock disappeared.

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I left Thursday early from work to drive up the beautiful Merritt Parkway lined with fall colors to go to Art Is. It was the just the best retreat I've ever been to, whether as teacher or student, and I was both this year.

Above is the beautiful tea cup Alice hat made by the equally beautiful, whimsical and sweet Taryn Reece of Navel Jelly Studios. Take a look at her blog for the other wonderful Alice hat that she designed. 

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This is Karen, Sallianne's beautiful and charming Aussie mom. She flew across the ocean and a whole continent to make her own Mad Hatter's Chapeau and brought with her a flock of gorgeous aprons that she designed and sewed. You can see one of her more outre` fashions, all sequined and bedazzled.

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Here is a little peek at our own Mad Hatter's Tea Party, which magically appeared every evening for our pleasure. I don't think Alice ever ate a cannoli, but we savored them, along with Boston Cream Pie,  petit fours and tarts. 

Look at the gorgeous Queen of Hearts made by this lovely lady, who is modeling the chapeau she whipped up from the bits and bobs provided to us at the tea party.

I am so very, very sorry that I don't remember her name, but the doll was just spectacular and below is her picture, along with the beautiful hat she designed on the spot. (If you know her name, please email me so I can edit it in. It was just spectacular!

 

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I make a lot of different kinds of art but this retreat features several classes in doll making and I can tell you that I've never seen anything like it. I am just awed by their talents and their imagination - and their sewing skills!

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 The befruited hat is Pamela Huntington's elegant creation, that she just whipped up while I fumbled with ribbons, buttons, and glue and ended up with a jumbled, sticky mess.


I taught a morning journaling workshop on each day and it was a life changing experience. I never felt more suited to what I was doing than I did on those mornings.  Nothing is more exciting than sharing your passion with others and seeing the light go on in their eyes when they finally "get it" and begin to lose themselves in bits of paper and glue.

Just a little taste of the conference and will post more during the week when I get the rest of the photos uploaded.

The week is shaping up to be as busy as the last few.   Drove up to the house mid-afternoon, drove off again for lunch with Mystery Man who was here for an event last night (he's supposed to email me the photos so I can write about it....). After lunch, we drove into Manhattan to drop him off at Penn Station, then came home to walk the dogs in the woods.

Tomorrow it's off to work, where I will hopefully be able to leave early (again) in order to drive The Teen down for a college interview and portfolio review. We will crash at MM's apartment, and even meet up with The Princess for a crab dinner if we make good time. The Princess is moving back home while she gets ready to apply to grad schools. The empty next doesn't stay empty for long!

And then on the weekend, we are going up to the Cape with the girls.

Whew, my suitcase doesn't have time to get cool down and neither does my car engine.

A busy but most exciting October!  Check back for more about Art Is, Baltimore, and maybe a few sneak peeks at the Cape Cottage.


We Did It

This may have been the two busiest weeks of my life, not counting 1) when we had babies #2 and #3, and our four moves cross country. 

So forgive the spotty posting, which I hate to tell ya, is going to continue for at least another handful of days as I am about to leave after work tomorrow for Art Is. (see sidebar on left -  bet there are still a coupla walk in spots should any of you locals care to make it to THE East Coast Art Event and not only meet ME, but take some great art classes with the likes of Keith LoBue and other lovelies,)

So what's going on?

Well, without getting all mushy about it, let me say simply that after twenty years of talking about it, Mr. Pom and I were so very lucky to buy a small little cottage on the Cape. 

I have gone back and forth about a hundred times in my mind about posting about this.

I know this a terrible economic time for many people, including some people in my own family.

We are very, very lucky and I am knocking on a lot of wood and throwing salt over my should and not spitting into the wind.

Mr. P was the leader in all this, which is usually the case for Landmark Decisions in our family. I am the wild-eyed big talker and he is the persistent planner nose to the grindstone guy who just plods along until he gets to where he wants to go.

I was resistant. I was like, "are you crazy there's a recession, another kid to put through college, two we haven't finished paying for, and did I mention the recession?"

And Mr. Pom was all, "Dudette, wake up! The housing market has crashed and it's a Buyer's Market on the Cape!"

So in the cold, harsh days of New Year's, we began looking at houses on Cape Cod.

The realtor, we found out later, was brand new to realty.  He was very sweet and found creative ways to tell us that there was no way in hell that we could buy a house in our price range in the town we wanted to live in.

No way. Nope.

And for many months we believed him as we looked at ...nothing in our price range or even close to it. 

We saw teeny tiny cabins that would make great writing retreats but not much else; teeny tiny cottages on streets that featured abandoned cars in front yards; freestanding teen tiny condos (are you getting the teen tiny picture) that needed to be turned into year round residencea; tiny Cape Codders where only half the family would get to sit down at one time; raised ranches filled with shag carpeting and plastic room dividers; cute, spacious condos that only had an 8 by 10 deck for outside space and restrictions for one dog (we decided we would put Bella Sera in a baby carriage and tell everyone she was from the Italian side of the family).

At one point, we gave it all up and spent a few summer weekends looking at boats for sale and marinas in our area.

The kids just rolled their eyes and said, "they'll never decide".

I gave up. Where were the romantic, picket fenced cottages down the road from the beach, the ones with outbuildings and marshes and bowers of roses and banks of hydrangeas?  Where was the romantic cottage of my dreams?

It was on the market for a zillion bucks.

We tried for one last look on vacation in August. Mr. Pom was rather, uh, obsessed at that point and every time we went in the car to the beach, he would hijack us all to show us the perfect house - on the other side of the Cape. Or he'd been online, grabbing my arm to show me real estate listings. It was either buy a house or buy him Prozac.

At breakfast one morning, we opened the paper to see that a beautiful house we'd been pining over was listed with a big price reduction. Uh oh, it had an open house. Yesterday. We quickly called the realtor to make an offer, site unseen. But they'd just accepted an offer. Dejected.

Then driving around on our own, we ran across a contemporary Cape in a wooded neighborhood. Two people happened to be outside and when we rolled down the window we found out it was the owner and the realtor. And yes, they'd just accepted an offer.

On the very last day I told Mr Pom that I would spend looking at houses on my vacation, the realtor took us to a ranch in a plain old year round family neighborhood.  It was an estate sale and was empty and they'd just lowered the price. Again.

I walked in and said, make an offer.

Mr. Pom hates when I do that cause the sellers start flashing dollar signs into their eyes.

But I knew it was it. A sunny, spare, simple ranch only ten minutes from ocean or bay. It was all white inside, clean, sunny, and had a comfortable family ambiance.  As the realtor said, it's a happy house.

It has a big backyard that is overgrown and waiting for our yardwork. There's a pretty brick patio laid with antique bricks. And plenty of spaces for dogs to explore.

There are two 1970's bathrooms: one powder blue;one avocado. And a narrow bedroom with a bay window and built in bookcases that will be my writing room whenever it is unoccupied.

The living room has a fireplace and big picture window. There's three bedrooms and a big mudroom for the dogs. There's even an attached garage that someday will be my art studio.

It's in our favorite, favorite, town.

There's a kettle pond down the street. 

And my cousin is trying to buy a house in the same neighborhood.

Mr. Pom and I went up this weekend to close on the house. We spent 3 crazy days closing, cleaning, moving stuff, and buying out Christmas Tree Shop and TJ Maxx  housewares.

Finally, on Monday the sun came out and it was 65 degrees. We had nothing to do but wait for a few deliveries and repair persons. I was painting my latest submission for the magazine (it's coming guys, just a few days late!) and working on my workshops for Art Is. Mr. Pom was outside puttering around. I made BLTs for lunch. I painted my collage. Mr. Pom read his book. I wrote some outlines for my workshop. Mr. Pom futzed around with the catch on a sliding door.

I pinched myself.

Before we left, we went to say goodbye to the ocean. Many people were sitting on the beach. Surfers were running into the waves. It smelled like summer and fried onion rings.  We stood side by side for about ten minutes, just taking it all in.

Then we drove home, leaving it all behind.

Till next weekend.

I am pinching myself again. 


Between the Covers

Hmm - don't you think I should start a new blog reviewing books and call it Between the Covers with a picture of someone sexy in bed....no,? Yeah, you're probably right.

I don't think there has been a better period of time for glorious, rich, sumptuous cover art. My head spins when I walk into a bookstore. Not only do the titles themselves intrigue and tantalize, but cover art has grown into such an art in its own right, that I often find myself drawn over and over again to books that I want to possess just to own the cover art. Frankly, if I could ever bear it and I could not, I would be well satisfied to rip off these covers and frame them around my writing room. What better inspiration than to imagine my own book with some richly hued, evocative imagery that sells the tale.


For example,

Balzac and the Little Chinese Mistress


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Those red shoes just grabbed me. Whatever the title or substance of the book, I would have purchased it just to take home that tender photo.  The art director on this book was amazing, for even the alternative cover is extraordinary:

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Those spools of thread framing the slice of - radish? - showing my ignorance but I am sure it is a Chinese vegetable and not a tomato - are just delicious. At least for an artist.



So I was disappointed at the cover of Audrey Niffenegger's new book,

Her Awful Symmetry

 The author of The Time Traveler's Wife, Niffenegger's new novel is very spooky, true, but frankly, I thought it was too Halloween and would make it less attractive to the serious reader who might bypass it.

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I decided to take a look at the British cover as they tend to have much more subtle cover art.

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Apparently, not this time as the art director chose a literal interpretation that does nothing for me in terms of the book except to depict two of the main characters whom I would have liked to have imagined on my own.


But what about the story itself?

I will start by saying that I read it straight through a 24 hour period that covered driving to Cape Cod, attending our house closing, and buying mattresses, a refrigerator, and various and costly sundries at Christmas Tree Shop and TJ Maxx.  Exhausted, I had the book open at every moment while Mr. Pom drove around, at the motel, and while waiting for various deliveries.

On one hand, parts of the book are a delightful, rollicking, spooky tale worthy of Edwin Gorey. In other parts, the book bogs down and loses the thread of the real nut of the mystery, which is revealed three quarters throught the novel and is so complex that I have had to plot it out twice to get it straight. 

it is a very absorbing, chilling, spooky tale that is almost perfect reading for dark, rainy pre-Halloween days of October. The gothic tale does not quite capture the random arbitrary fascination of fate that Time Traveller did, but it does capture a sublime essence of humanity's evil, or more aptly perhaps for a Catholic girl, humanity's Original Sin. 

Wildly atmospheric in its portrayal of British damp and gothic buildings, labyrinthine London and Highgate Cemetery may be the novel's most brilliant characters.  It is stuffed full of the Anglophilia that I love, and the writing excels in making you taste the damp pervading plaster walls, mausoleum air,  rotting fabrics, and mouldering books.  Scabrous but heartbreaking humor abounds.

Into The Woods

Fully immersed in the Gothic atmosphere above, I found my hand being guided by unseen forces as I reached for another gothic tale when I popped into the  The Brewster Bookstore on a teeming down rain Saturday afternoon. 

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A tale of murder, cops, Ireland, and The Woods, I forestalled my desire to plunge right into the tale  when I realized that we were spending the first night in our new cottage on the Cape. While it is a very plain, spare, and most nonthreatening cottage, I was just a hair breath's on the side of being a silly spooked girl with just the two of us in the empty, quiet house for the first night and I wisely decided instead  to begin a collection of short stories by Penelope Lively.  A much better choice for a slight case of first night nerves and the novel and a a Tylenol P.M. made me go to sleep dreaming about down at the heels gentlemen farms and overcrowded boarding houses instead of creepy dreams about  ghostly writing on pianos.

As for the cover art, it drew me right to it in my desire to scare myself silly.

 I plan to begin it later today as I can scare myself witless tonight since the first night passed uneventfully though it is so quiet in the neighborhood that it was a bit like being in a tomb....

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Just to torture myself, I picked up a new book,

"Barefoot Summers"

  that is a collection of essays about "Home, Family, and Simple Pleasures" by Faith Andrews Bedford who writes a regular column for Country Living magazine on living in what else, the country.

How could I resist this cover art? It jumped off the shelves into my hand and I groaned when I saw what it was about and read the prefatory acknowledgement, "To my readers who asked for more stories, here they are". 

I groaned so loudly that Mr. Pom was at my side in a second, assuming that I must be suffering a burst appendix at least to elicit such a noise in a public place. I couldn't speak but waived the book at him like a woman possessed and he just shook his head and walked away. (I like to regularly torture myself with collections of essays that are similar to my own writings so that I may bemoan and deride my own inability to get myself together and actually Do It.)

Her essays are charming and just a twee too sweet for me, a bit more saccharine than her column for the magazine. I would pick up a copy of Jo Northrup's collection if you can find it, but Ms. Bedford is a very good writer who will appeal to perhaps those looking for sweet anecdotes about the type of childhood that we all imagined someone else had.

 I could not resist reading

The Slippery Year

 the book that inspired my last bout of self-abasement in the continuing Why Can't I Get My Act Together Whine post of some weeks ago. (Please look for it; I'm posting from a local internet connection and it is very fickle and may go off at any second.)

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I expected to either hate it or adore it and my feelings fell smack in the middle. Not sure what the cover art relates to since the slipperiness is merely metaphorical and stretching the metaphor to find it in the course of the year (which the author admits is a compression of several events over a longer time span) and of which none relate to any out of control circumstances except her own ability to engage in the world without anxiety.

As if any of us can. 

The writing was skillful and there were tender scenes about long term marriage and motherhood and the child emerging into an independent being that tugged at my heart.  There was nothing to hate or deride about it except my own jealousy that she actually did it. I would have liked more a story arc and more of a tactile approach to her writing, but that just is my own style looking for similar ilk.

The Beach Street Knitting Society and Yarn Club

 Initially, I was reluctant to read yet another in the genre of Get Divorced/Widowed/Leave a Career/And Open a Knitting Store, which has become a very popular escapist genre rivaling Joan Anderson's Go To The Beach And Find Yourself in MidLife memoirs.

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 I  did not enjoy  the two popular  novels in the past few years written  about a knitting store on the upper West Side of Manhattan (can't remember the title) and intended to pass this one up. But then Behind the Stove recommended it for the author's depiction of the mother/child relationship with small boys and I couldn't resist the cover art.

The book opens with the narrator having received the shocking news that her husband, who just asked her for a divorce, was killed in a car accident. (No spoiler here; it happens in the first five pages). That is the beginning and the end of any major plot devices, except that she moves with her two little boys to a charming village by the sea and takes over her grandmother's knitting shop.

In the style of Barbara Pym, she  quite quietly fillets the nuances and characters living in small towns and the business of child-rearing, running a small business, and learning how to flirt again.  She ends the book just at the point perfectly situated for a sequel and I am sure I will have the opportunity to spend more evenings with this character and perhaps even take up knitting again 

Haweswater -

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 Have I written about this?If I have, it deserves a second mention. It is a dark, brooding, heartbreaking story based loosely upon the flooding of an entire valley in post war England, in order to provide drinking water to the cities. The novel revolves around the daughter of one of the farmers and her passionate affair with the representative from the water company, a relationship that she resisted for months and hated as much as adored. In the afterword, the author writes about growing up in this valley and the vivid supernatural myths that surround the area, particularly that of a woman who haunts a tree and on whom she bases the main character of the novel. She is a grand Storyteller of the first order. The writing is incredibly rich. Her imagery makes me swoon.  I have her other book, The Electric Michelangelo in the TBR pile and may just begin it as soon as I get home.

Lastly, I have begun

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Let's not discuss the title.

After Mr. Pomegranate picked me up off the floor at the bookstore and I was banned from Borders forever for crying and shrieking in the new nonfiction aisle, I critically and neutrally appraised the cover art and determined that it is 1) too dark and strangely dependent on doll-sized figurines, and 2) would never have persuaded me to pick up the book if it had not been written by Sue Monk Kidd, an author whom I have loved since The Dance of the Dissident Daughter.

Written in alternating chapters by the two women, the books chronicles the time period immediately before the publication of Secret Life of Bees. (I think; not far enough along in it but pretty sure she is writing about just finishing the novel and didn't know what a success it would be.) She takes her daughter on a trip to Greece where both women find deep significance and meaning in the ancient world that they can apply to their coming of age and midlife quandaries.

As a fifty-something woman with a twenty-something daughter, I struggle with the same issues of creating an adult relationship with my daughter. As always, Monk Kidd excels in self introspection and feminine archetypes and the writing is skillfull and the Grecian setting is quite spectacular.

Thus, I'll forgive her for borrowing my symbol, my imagery, my metaphor, my title.

And now, go read and tell me of what.

Lined up on the TBR for me:

  • Edgar Sawtelle (finally)
  • Brooklyn
  • A Gate At the Stairs Lorie Moore's new collection of short stories
  • Tryst (poetry)
  • Dreams of My Russian Summer
  • South of Broad (Pat Conroy)

On the Anglopile:

  • The Bolter
  • The Electric Michelangelo
  • Kitchen Essays (Persephone Classics)
  • Nella's Last Peace: The Post-War Diaries of Housewife, 49
  • Cheerful Weather for the Wedding (Persephone Classic)

Newly lusting after:

Nigel Slater's latest -

Tender: v. 1: A Cook and His Vegetable Patch






Tender: v. 1: A Cook and His Vegetable Patch

You have to be intrigued by any book written by a Brit about vegetables.....